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08 May 2007

Love

first, what is love? wiki's definition of love can be found here. however, this article is to explain the basic roots of love.

there are mainly 3 most important component for love. these are trust, communication and respect. these 3 can be said to basically be the foundation of all love.

trust is important for if you don't trust your partner in the first place, there is practically no point to be together in the first place. trust is important to instill a sense of belief for one another. if both partners don't trust each other, then they will inevitably encounter with annoying paranoia problems.

communication is an important aspect that some people ignore sometimes. although a couple may trust each other to the maximum, without communication, their love may never grow. a couple must learn to talk to each other and express themselves or they may well be on the way to a bad relationship. sometimes we can't always guess what is trying to be said, we must just talk directly.

respect is probably the most important portion there is. if we do not respect our partner, there is a space of disrespect that will grow to become hate. we must learn to respect the choices our partners let them know they must respect you too. of course there are arguments in a relationship, but sometimes we must give way and sometimes we must stand our ground. either way, we must respect each other.

if you fail to do these 3 simple things with your partner, then you are considered a failure. without these 3 simple aspects, your love life may be starting to spiral downwards. this also applies to love for your family and so on. these 3 things are the most important that there is. i'm not saying there isn't more but these 3 can be considered the foundation so please don't ignore it if you happen to think you love them but don't think that the 3 conditions apply. if you think you have any questions, feel free to e-mail me at: sucker_d_polvis@yahoo.com

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